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© 2023 by Betsy Kleiger. Website by MWE Creative

About Me

I'm Betsy. A thirty-something anxious, no-nonsense mama

living in sunny San Diego!

I'm married to the hardest working man I know. I birthed two crazy, adorable, pain in the ass, best-thing-I've-ever-done boys. I am a mom of an ADHD/ Anxious child, which in itself constantly presents me with unique curve balls everyday!

We are huge Disney dorks and almost every birthday, holiday or vacation revolves around something Disney related! Don't believe me? Just check out this birthday party or that weekend adventure!

My hobbies consist of….. oh wait, I have children I don’t have hobbies.

Just kidding! I do still have hobbies, maybe not enough time to fit them all in, but I really do love all things food and exercise related.

I work hard everyday to fight my own anxiety and body acceptance issues, while striving to be the best mom, friend, wife, version of me as possible.


I was an elementary educator for 12 years, spending the last 4 working in special education. At the end of the school year in June of 2016, I took the plunge and left the school district I had been working at since 2004.

I needed a creative outlet, and came up with “Flab But Fab" 

Flab But Fab is my outlet for all things fun, food, family and travel While raising an ADHD Child and managing my own Anxiety

But enough about me, I want to know more about you. Where are you going and where have you been? What are your passions, and what are the fears that keep you up at night?

My intention with this blog is to give you 100% real Betsy, the good the bad, the flab, and the fab. And in turn, you can give yourself 100% realness too. Because, honey, it is OK to be exactly who you are! My mission is to build a safe community for all of us women to live our truth even if it’s not always pretty!

If you're tired of all the highlight reels, you came to the right place

Life is messy, and sometimes it's really freaking hard. There are days where you want to give up, crawl back under the covers and never come out again.

But you know what gets me through it all? My support system, and this blog is a big part of that, because I get to share my story with you. So thank you for reading and I hope to get to know your story so I can support you too.

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